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Who The F*** Are You?

Updated: Dec 21, 2022

Is a question you should all be able to answer


And if you're still thinking about it now, you have work to do...



Just like I started doing five years ago after leaving a job that was not for me


It was scary at the time, but now I understand how important my decision really was


For once in my life, I actually took a decision for myself, and not for all my friends and family


In fact, many of the people around me at the time thought I was making a big mistake


But I knew deep inside that I could not keep going in the same direction


You see, it wasn't only my work that I disliked at that time


I didn't like the person I was becoming either


And that's not living at all...


A Step Back


My childhood was tough


And I know many of you can relate


But you all have the ability to break the cycle...


If you are willing to put in the work and go deep within


Because I'm finding that this is where most of the answers are


Deep inside yourself, where no one else can really see, except for you


Which means you need to be honest with yourself if you want to make a change


For me, it was accepting that fact that I was much more than a good insurance salesman


Sales was something that I was taught and trained to do well throughout my 20's


But it wasn't a role that I was in love with, and I hated what we were selling


That said, the money was good and my friends were impressed


And it's why being honest with yourself is so important


Yeah, I liked the money and all the perks too


But it wasn't worth all the sacrifice


To be someone else...


Your Future Self


Sometimes we get lost


Enjoying all the pleasures of today


While not taking the time to align with our goals...


Don't get me wrong, I'm a huge fan of being present as possible


But that doesn't mean you shouldn't take the time to make sure you're on track


Yeah, the track might even been a bit unclear, but having some direction always helps


It's this direction that allows us to align within and reach our personal goals


That said, you need to have an idea of who you really want to be


And that's where your future self comes into the picture


But for me, the process was a bit backwards


Because the future self I was creating


I clearly didn't want to be...


Acceptance


You can be honest with yourself


But it doesn't mean you have to accept it


That said, once you accept it, you can actually change it...


This was a tough lesson for me to learn, but it's one you must learn too


Because to actually change anything in your life, you are going to have to take action


And you won't take any action until you accept that there is a problem that needs to be fixed


It's exactly what I did 5 years ago though, and it allowed me to make a big change


First, I had to be honest with myself and the situation I was in at the time


Then I had to accept it as my reality, which made it even worse


Leaving you with only two options at the end of day


1) Keep living the life I built for others


or


2) Make a radical change


And build my own...


The Lesson


Life will never get easy


And hard times will come and go


But you can make the hard times much easier...


By taking the time to be honest with yourself and accept it


This simple process outlined above will drive you in a new direction


A direction that is aligned with YOU and not necessarily the people around you


This was the big mistake that I was making over an over again for most of my adult life


I never took the time to step back and evaluate my situation and my true needs


Instead, I listened to what other people said and started to accept it


And I had no idea if they were being honest with me at all


Let alone with themselves...see the problem here?


I do, it's clear, I had no idea who the f*** I was


And it's why I started putting in the work


Just like you all need to do as well


So that you know damn well


Who the f*** you are...


With Love,

Steven Arthur George





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